Could you date a man who wore skirts?

And fellas, could you date a woman who donned men’s clothing? Will Smith’s 17-year-old son Jaden was recently announced as the new face of Louis Vuitton’s womenswear collection. In the new ad campaign for the famous fashion house, Jaden – the only male model amongst several female models – sports a metal-embroidered skirt with a fringed white top and a…

Fight for love or leave?

Saturday sentiment: Thought-provoking lyrics from jazz/soul legend Nina Simone, who would have been 82 today. But do you agree with her sentiment? Should you leave a relationship if the love has dwindled? Or is love ever worth fighting for? Share your thoughts. And don’t forget: If you’re looking for new love, join http://www.dates4us.com today.

Thou shalt not judge?

Could you overlook the ‘flaws’ of a potential partner in order to pursue love? We know from Biblical teachings that we should “judge not, and ye shall not be judged” (Luke 6:37). But how easy is it to put that into practice when it comes to finding love?     We all have standards and…

When love meets major hurdles

Throwback Thursday: An image from the classic 1964 film Nothing But A Man, which examined the difficulties faced by Ivan and his wife Josie in America’s racist south in the 1960s. Have you ever been in a relationship that buckled under the pressure of societal problems like a lack of income, challenges at work or…

How do you feel about change?

What do you make of this statement from Alicia Keys, who is 34 today? If you’re in a relationship, is it inevitable that both of you will change? If so, would that be a problem for you? Or do you welcome change in a partner? Share your thoughts. And remember, if you’re looking for a…

Goodwill to all men?

How many kinky requests would you oblige for your partner in the spirit of new year cheer? It’s the time of year when hopes are high. People are looking to 2015 with optimism – and those who are coupled up may hope that a new year will bring new excitement to their relationship. It got…

Tis the season to get naughty…

Dates4Us diversifies with Naughty Dates4Us – an online hub for black and mixed race singles who simply want to enjoy a casual liaison Many of us dream of meeting that special someone and living happily ever after – but many of us don’t. Plenty of people aren’t interested in finding Mr/Miss Right – they simply…

Your friend is cheating: do you keep their secret?

It’s an unenviable position to find yourself in, causing a horrible moral dilemma: Your friend is cheating on their partner and you know the partner. Do you tell said partner that they are being betrayed?   Many people are in this very situation and according to a new survey, the majority of them would not…

You want sex more often than your partner: what would you do?

Three brave couples recently revealed the impact their mismatched libidos are having on their relationships. In an article recently published by the Daily Mail, three married couples admitted they face a challenge in their relationship, resulting from their differing sex drives.   Stacey Powell said his wife of 12 years, Vanessa rarely responded positively to…

From porn to prayer: could you date a former adult film star?

A popular porn star has given up the adult entertainment business, insisting that God has “changed me completely”. Adult film star Austin Taylor (below), famed for her explicit videos with black men, took to her WordPress blog last month to explain that she had given up her porn career and changed her life, thanks to…

Could you be with someone famous?

Married men Monday! Snoop Dogg, pictured with his wife Shante, celebrates his 43rd birthday today. The couple have been through their trials and tribulations but remain united after 17 years of marriage. We want to know: Could you handle a relationship with someone famous or someone who courted attention everywhere they went? Tell us your…