Could you date a man who wore skirts?

And fellas, could you date a woman who donned men’s clothing? Will Smith’s 17-year-old son Jaden was recently announced as the new face of Louis Vuitton’s womenswear collection. In the new ad campaign for the famous fashion house, Jaden – the only male model amongst several female models – sports a metal-embroidered skirt with a fringed white top and a…

Homie, lover or friend: Which do you want your partner to be?

We all have different needs in a relationship. For some, sharing common interests is a must; others need their partner to always have their back; and for some, being sexually compatible is imperative. R&B star R. Kelly famously sung of having a lady who fulfilled all his needs in his hit song Homie Lover Friend….

New Year, New Love

So another year has passed and you weren’t able to tick off ‘find love’ on your to-do list. Maybe you spent the last 12 months focusing on other endeavours and romance wasn’t a priority for you. Or perhaps 2015 spelled the end of a relationship. Well guess what? A new year has begun and it’s…

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year from Dates4Us! Thank you for your continued support and here’s wishing you all a wonderful 2016. If you’re looking for love this New Year, you know where to find it: http://www.dates4us.com. Happy New Year!

Should Christian women avoid dressing ‘too sexy’?

Gospel singer Erica Campbell has often been criticised for dressing ‘too sexy’ for a Christian woman – but the singer says her curvy body “is not a curse”. Since emerging onto the music scene in 2000 as one half of gospel duo Mary Mary, the singer has come under fire for wearing clothes that many…

STEP 9 – THE FIRST DATE SURVIVAL GUIDE

The first date is where the fun really begins, but even for the most confident amongst us, meeting someone for the first time can be nerve-wracking. Our first date survival guide is designed to help to put you at ease before and during your date, so you can rest assured it will be enjoyable, and…

STEP 8 – HOW TO PLAN A SUCCESSFUL FIRST DATE

Deciding where to go on your first date is all part of the fun, but getting the details right is vital. Will you be able to hear each other above the noise, and will you both be able to enjoy the food and drink on offer? The venue you suggest for your first date together…

Bigger is better? Could you date someone who was overweight?

US actress Gabourey Sidibe has hit the headlines, thanks to a sex scene, which she filmed for hit show Empire. The 32-year-old, who plays personal assistant Becky Williams, filmed the steamy session, which saw her character enjoy a passionate rooftop romp with rapper MC J Poppa (played by actor Mo McRae). After the episode aired,…

STEP 7: HOW TO RESPOND TO YOUR FIRST MESSAGE

So your profile’s generated a bit of a buzz on dates4us; you’ve been winked at, sent an email or maybe someone’s initiated a conversation. Check you out! While you might be feeling uncertain about how to respond, fear not. In this article, we’ll show you fool-proof answers which are sure to get the ball rolling…

STEP 6: GETTING IN TOUCH WITH YOUR MATCHES

You’ve carefully crafted your profile, run a search and found some matches you’d like to contact… But now what? http://www.dates4us.com  offer a range of ways to break the ice with your chosen match and get you started on your dating journey. ADD THEM TO YOUR FAVOURITES By simply clicking on the “Add to my favourites”  button, you’re subtly…

STEP 5: HOW TO FIND YOUR DATE

Searching for your matches with http://www.dates4us.com couldn’t be simpler. With experience in online dating, our search functions have been created specifically to help you find the kinds of matches you’re looking for. KNOWING WHAT’S IMPORTANT Before you start your search, consider what is a deal-maker or breaker for you, and what you’re willing to compromise on….

STEP 4: DISCOVER WHO YOU’RE REALLY LOOKING FOR

Finding the right person to date might seem like a simple matter of creating a checklist and finding out who ‘ticks the right boxes’. But, what we’ve learned from our experience is that finding a love connection is less about narrowing your search and more about being open to new experiences. Here are our top…