An honest sentiment on marriage from Mary J. Blige, who celebrates her 44th birthday today. The R&B star wed Kendu Isaacs in 2003. Do you agree with her that couples should strive to better themselves for each other? Or should marriage be a case of ‘take me as I am’? Tell us your thoughts. And remember: If you’re looking for your own ideal mate, join www.dates4us.com today.